IDO International · Matchmaking for Chinese singles worldwide

Wherever you are,meet the one

Safe, genuine, science-led matchmaking for Chinese singles worldwide.
Every member carefully screened. A matchmaker and relationship coach with you all the way.

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01 / 07Hand in hand Melbourne · Member wedding film · Shared with permission

What we believe

We've always believed love isn't luck. It's a skill you can learn.

IDO · Since 2018

Across five countries

One red thread,
connecting Chinese singles worldwide

Started in Sydney.
Australia New Zealand Singapore United States Canada
And growing.

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Success stories

They met through IDO

All member photos shared with permission

Married in SingaporeMarried in SingaporeSINGAPORE
Melbourne membersMelbourne membersMELBOURNE
Melbourne members at their registry weddingMelbourne membersMELBOURNE
Sydney membersSydney membersSYDNEY
IDO members' wedding in SydneySydneyWEDDING
Wedding photo of IDO members from TorontoToronto membersFrom long distance to the same city
From BostonFrom BostonBOSTON
An IDO couple with their babyNow a family of threeFAMILY
IDO members signing their marriage certificateJust marriedSYDNEY
An IDO couple's seaside weddingBy the seaWEDDING
IDO members from Sydney and ChengduSydney × ChengduAcross borders

Success stories · Video

In their own words

More on YouTube @IDOAIDU →

Our journey

Since 2018, one goal: helping singles find love

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2018: IDO founded in Sydney
2018

IDO founded in Sydney

Launched member events, our app and one-to-one matchmaking

2019: Co-hosted If You Are the One's first special in Australia
2019

Co-hosted If You Are the One's first special in Australia

A new era for Chinese singles abroad

2020: Live streams for singles during lockdown
2020

Live streams for singles during lockdown

Through six months of lockdown, we went live every day to talk about love, change and growth

2021: The Relationship Matching Model is born
2021

The Relationship Matching Model is born

Our own model, for sharper, faster matching

2022: Into New Zealand and Canada
2022

Into New Zealand and Canada

Bringing professional relationship support to more Chinese communities

2023: Into Singapore and the US, and launched our Dating Bootcamp
2023

Into Singapore and the US, and launched our Dating Bootcamp

Love takes practice. Dating can be learned.

2024: A structured coaching and training system
2024

A structured coaching and training system

Making love and growth something you can learn

2025: Into the age of AI
2025

Into the age of AI

Combining NLP coaching with AI to make tech more human

2026: IDO RELATE™ launched
2026

IDO RELATE™ launched

12 practical classes, from meeting and choosing to building a relationship

Our team

Your dedicated team

Consultants, matchmakers and coaches
each looking after a different step

Lilian MartinoLilian MartinoCertified Life CoachSenior Consultant
Tomato AngTomato AngCertified Life CoachSenior Consultant
Selina ShanSelina ShanCertified Life CoachSenior Consultant
Faith FanFaith FanCertified Life CoachSenior Consultant
KK AokeKK AokeSenior Consultant
Amy ZhangAmy ZhangSenior Consultant
Annie ZhangAnnie ZhangSenior Consultant
KellyKellySenior Consultant

Events

Meet more people, in real life

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IDO event: meet-and-greet with Meng Fei of If You Are the One
Meng Fei meet-and-greet
IDO event: singles party
Singles party
IDO event: social lunch
Social lunch
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball
IDO event: Qixi party
Qixi party
IDO event: city-themed night
City-themed night
IDO event: Speed dating
Speed dating
IDO event: Old Shanghai night
Old Shanghai night
IDO event: weekend dinner
Weekend dinner
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball
IDO event: meet-and-greet with Meng Fei of If You Are the One
Meng Fei meet-and-greet
IDO event: singles party
Singles party
IDO event: social lunch
Social lunch
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball
IDO event: Qixi party
Qixi party
IDO event: city-themed night
City-themed night
IDO event: Speed dating
Speed dating
IDO event: Old Shanghai night
Old Shanghai night
IDO event: weekend dinner
Weekend dinner
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball
IDO event: race day with If You Are the One
Race day
IDO event: members' gala dinner
Gala dinner
IDO event: singles party
Singles party
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball
IDO event: party games
Party games
IDO event: icebreaker games
Icebreakers
IDO event: champagne tower
Champagne tower
IDO event: city-themed night
City-themed night
IDO event: members' gala dinner
Gala dinner
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball
IDO event: race day with If You Are the One
Race day
IDO event: members' gala dinner
Gala dinner
IDO event: singles party
Singles party
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball
IDO event: party games
Party games
IDO event: icebreaker games
Icebreakers
IDO event: champagne tower
Champagne tower
IDO event: city-themed night
City-themed night
IDO event: members' gala dinner
Gala dinner
IDO event: masquerade ball
Masquerade ball

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Profile checks

With each introduction, we tell you what we've verified and what we haven't yet

Mutual consent

Contact details are shared only when you both want to meet

Privacy first

Your details are used for matching only. Never sold, never shared without consent.

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Contact our compliance team at [email protected]

Questions

FAQ

Can't find your question? Ask your consultant when you book.

Can IDO guarantee I'll find someone?

The more open you are, the more chances you'll have. Our Relationship Matching Model guides every introduction, and your matchmaker and coach stay with you through each date, each debrief and every adjustment along the way, so each date brings you closer to the right person. That's how many of our members met their partner.

How does the first consultation work?

You'll have a one-to-one chat with a consultant on Zoom or at our office. We'll get to know your story, what you're looking for and your goals, then suggest the plan that suits you.

Is IDO available in my city?

We work with Chinese singles in Australia, New Zealand, Singapore, the US and Canada, and we're adding new cities all the time.

Where do my matches come from?

Mostly from IDO's member network and verified members of our singles community. Your matchmaker can also look for someone who fits your brief, then verify them before introducing you.

How much does it cost?

Every plan is tailored to your needs and timeframe. Your consultant will walk you through what's included and the cost, and you can take your time to decide.

Talk first.
Decide later.

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