Why doesn't chemistry
always mean compatibility?
Explore attraction, attachment and communication
to tell what excites you from what makes you feel secure
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IDO RELATE™ · Relationship course
IDO RELATE
From meeting to choosing to building a relationship
Built for Chinese singles dating around the world
Relationship science×NLP tools×Real IDO cases
Sound familiar?
A good first date. Then nothing.
A real spark. But stuck in limbo.
The course works through three questions:
who to choose, how to get closer and how to make it last
- 01
Clarity
Stuck: not sure what you want
Separate what draws you in
from what you really need - 02
Choice
Stuck: can't decide
Read the signs of interest
and judge whether it's a fit - 03
First dates
Stuck: no second date
Feel at ease
and let them get to know you - 04
Progress
Stuck: in limbo
Say how you feel
and find out where you stand - 05
Building
Stuck: it never lasts
Work through differences
and build steady habits together
The method
More than theory.
Skills you'll actually use.
IDO helps you meet the right people.
RELATE helps you choose, connect and build.
Why doesn't chemistry
Why is it so hard to be honest
with someone you really like?
Spot habits like people-pleasing, pulling away or constantly testing the other person
and practise voicing needs, showing interest and setting boundaries
From dating to a relationship:
what's the next step?
Using real dating situations,
we look at when to show interest and how to check you're on the same page
0real dating cases
brought into class to discuss and practise
brought into class to discuss and practise
Inside the course
Real questions,
answered in class
Tap a poster for the full story (in Chinese)
How you choose and respond decides whether it goes anywhere.
and which come from fear?
Values, lifestyle, emotional maturity and where you're headed
Once you see them, you can choose differently.
and how it feels to be together
Watch whether actions match words, how much effort is made and whether things move forward.
choosing with clarity, responding well and truly connecting
How it runs
12 classes.
Learn it. Live it.
Try what you learn on dates and in conversations,
then come back with new experiences
12practical classes
90minper class
ZoomLive online, wherever you are
1:1coaching between classes
Learn live
A new relationship topic each week
with real cases and guided review
Missed a class? No worries
Classes run on a rolling cycle
so you can catch it next time round
Come back with fresh eyes
Bring your latest dating experiences
and look at what came up for you
Classes run Tuesdays at 8:30 pm US Eastern Time (ET)
Your consultant can tell you which membership plans include the course
1:1 coaching
Learn it in class.
Practise it with a coach.
Your relationship coach works with your own dating experiences,
debriefing one to one so the skills stick
Clare
Xiuhui
Anita
Danny Lan
CandyRelationship coaches
Talk first.
Decide later.
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