Can I be matched if I don't live in Singapore?

Yes. Many IDO matches are across cities or countries. Your matchmaker arranges video dates and supports you both until you decide to meet.

Can newcomers join IDO events in Singapore?

Yes. We hold a short interview and basic verification first, so everyone at the event is serious about finding a partner.

Singapore · Chinese matchmaking

Chinese matchmaking in Singapore

Q: Can I meet IDO in person in Singapore?

Yes. Our Singapore office is in North Bridge Road. Please book at least 24 hours ahead; evenings and weekends are available, and Zoom is an option too.

Serious about finding a partner in Singapore?
Your matchmaker shortlists and arranges every introduction.

Visit our office

Sound familiar?

Dating in Singapore
can feel like this

Many of our members
told us the same things

01
Growing anxiety
Another year goes by
and friends are settling down
02
Pressure from parents
Every video call ends with
'so, anyone special yet?'
03
Not sure how to start
Hard to make the first move
and dates go quiet
04
Too reserved
Sincere but slow to warm up,
so people miss the real you

How we help in Singapore

How IDO works
in Singapore

A matchmaker with you at every step

01
A proper interview
At our North Bridge Road office or on Zoom.
Book at least 24 hours ahead.
Evenings and weekends available.
02
Think about four things
The life you want to live
The values you want in a partner
What past relationships taught you
Your absolute deal-breakers
03
One-on-one matching
Avoid the mistakes you've made before.
You only meet when you both say yes.
04
Monthly Singapore events
Dinners and speed dating
Masquerade and White Parties
Halloween costume parties

Newcomers are welcome at our events. We hold a short interview and basic verification first, so everyone in the room is serious about finding a partner.

You don't have to live in the same city. Your matchmaker sets up video dates and supports you both until you decide to meet.

A Singapore story

Seven years apart,
and exactly what she was looking for

He was born in 1991, a technical manager who had put everything into his career. She was born in 1998, a teacher hoping for someone mature who would make her feel secure. Their matchmaker saw how well their needs fit and encouraged her to meet him before letting the age gap decide. On their first date he brought the Disney toy she had mentioned in her profile. They were soon a couple.

Read the full story

Singapore couples